Uncle Lewy

Living out loud with Lewy Body Dementia

Seventeenth

17 years ago……

Our beach ceremony, our marriage began

I love this particular pic so much because it reflects laughter, laughter even in what can be solemn moments

It’s now so interesting to reflect on the fact our engagement photo which we used for several purposes was taken here in the Sonoma Square

And now it’s home

The weekend 17 years ago filled with such great memories, it’s wonderful to look back at the pictures

We all looked so much younger then! 17 years I guess will do that…..

We went to Divino’s in Sausalito for dinner to celebrate last nite

The spot of Matt’s birthday bash in 2024, right after his diagnosis, the night we announced to the family we planned to move back

He wanted the Carbonara there

As we sat in the back room, the room his birthday party completely took over, we looked at pictures from that night almost 3 years ago

We reflected on how, when we lived here before we moved to VA, we would come here somewhat frequently

The staff stayed pretty consistent…they got to know us….so we’d sit down and my glass of wine, Matt’s beer, would land on the table…..it just would as the server swooped by on her way through—no request made, the drinks just appeared

It’s so very sad to learn, as we did last night, that Elizabeth Nebot, the restaurant owner who I worked with as a client and who made Matt’s birthday event happen, passed away since

A reminder how precious life is…..

We went to the Sausalito Yacht Club for desert

Sat outside as the sun sat over the bay

We reflected on all the good times we had on the water, at the club

Unfortunately, there was only one face we recognized there…..It was great to see you Jean!

Time has flown by, things have changed

We had a really nice evening…..it wasn’t the struggle that it can be

Yes, there were accommodations made….like I always took his hand when going from the car to the next place, walking thru the restaurant or the club, I ordered for him, eased the way through the evening when needed

We were able to have nice conversation moments

It warmed my heart so…..its so hard to be with him and miss him all at the same time

Last night I had more of him with me, he was more present

Last nite I had more of him with me and for that I am grateful

Happy 17th wedding anniversary honey! I wub you!

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